I wish someone had told me this is elementary school, don’t you? I wish someone had told me it was alright to fail, that I most likely WOULD fail. A lot. That failure was even necessary.
And I should celebrate it.
Think about it. When you have you learned the most in your life?
Have you learned the most when you succeeded on a grand scale, or when you have colossally failed? I would wager you have learned the most in the latter circumstance.
I tell my musicians that I would rather them make a huge, loud mistake than play or sing timidly and make an unheard mistake. Here’s why:
- I can only help them fix the mistakes I hear. Timid musicians never improve. You must risk yourself to improve.
- Timid musicians rob us of all the good stuff. While you play quietly for fear of making a mistake, chances are 75% of what you do will still be good. Who cares, though? If you play quietly, I will never hear you. You might as well turn off your guitar or mouth the words.
When you are tempted to timidly toe dunk into a risky world where you might fail, think about this:
- Risk is required for improvement. Make a mistake. The worst that could happen is that you could *gasp* find an area to improve.
- Don’t selfishly rob us of your successes. Yes, embracing risk, whatever it is, pretty much guarantees some failure somewhere. If you shy away from risk for fear of failing, however, you are going to rob us of all your successes along the way.
By the way, I have been thinking about this topic because, well, I need to hear it as much as you do. So skip the toe dunk for a cannonball, OK? I’m right there with you.
Where do you need to take a risk even though you might fail?