Lots of people fish; it’s how you fish that determines whether or not you will actually catch anything. The same is true about life. Lots of people are physically alive, but how you live will determine whether or not your life is actually full and meaningful.
I grew up rod-and-reel fishing with my dad. Over the years we have fished for trout, walleye, bass, and recently, Alaskan sockeye salmon and deep-sea halibut. Each fish differs in many respects:
- How they engage the bait or lure
One thing never changes: how you manage your line.
Early on dad drilled into my head the truth that you must always keep tension in the line; not too much or the fish will not be able to sufficiently swallow the bait, and not too loose or you will never know if something bites. You have to keep it just right.
If the tension is right you will feel the nibbles and hits transmit through the line, up the rod, and to your hand like your rod and line are a giant antenna.
If the line tension is right you will be prepared to set the hook when the time comes.
The same is true with life.
You have to maintain a little tension; not too much or you will be anxiety-driven, but not too little or you will be apathetic and unresponsive.
Maintaining the just the right tension is called active waiting. Active waiting has several characteristics:
- Peace. You have ordered your life so that distractions and noise are balanced with sufficient refreshing time. Personally I believe this requires significant time nurturing a relationship with the Creator of the universe.
- Attentiveness. You are actively observing your life and experiences.
- Anticipation. You expect opportunities to come your way.
- Engagement. You recognize opportunities and take immediate action.
- Balance. If your action fails you learn what you can and return to active waiting. If your action succeeds you continue looking for the next step in the process.
Most of us say we want a life without tension, when that kind of life would be enormously unfulfilling.
A healthy life involves actively waiting for what God is going to bring your way and responding when the time comes.
Where in your life do you need to engage active waiting?