Did you think these were one and the same thing? Never thought about it? I have only begun to think about this recently.
Worship leaders and spiritual leaders can be the same person, but that is not a given. In fact, in my experience worship leaders have to learn to be spiritual leaders.
For instance, I grew up playing on worship bands. By the time I was finishing high school I was leading worship from time to time, and by the time I graduated college I was the primary worship leader at my dad’s church. After grad school I took a job at a church and became the primary worship leader there in both the traditional and the contemporary services.
I’ve been leading worship for over 20 years now, but only in the past 5 years have I actually began to be a spiritual leader.
I have noticed some key differences between worship leaders and spiritual leaders.
- Worship leaders lead and prepare teams to lead events. Spiritual leaders lead people.
- Worship leaders choose music to propel the theme of a service or fit a particular “slot” in the service. Spiritual leaders choose music to speak to people’s hearts, and then think about the theme.
- Worship leaders hold rehearsals for events. Spiritual leaders use rehearsals to find out where the team members are in their own walk with God.
Spiritual leaders care most about the people they are leading, not the product.
I have spent much of my life trying to be excellent in music and produce good services. These are good things. The problem is, I was pursuing those goals ahead of caring about the people on my teams.
If you want to be a spiritual leader and not just a worship leader or some other kind of leader, here are a few thoughts to consider.
- People are most important. Period.
- Because people are most important, you will need to sacrifice other things in order to succeed in keeping people as a top priority.
- In rehearsal sometimes we have to let a detail go for the sake of encouraging the volunteer rather than running the volunteer into the ground for the sake of perfection. Note: This does not mean horrible intonation and sister Mary’s autoharp get to go unaddressed. This does mean that a missed note here or there is not the end of the world.
- Prayer, group sharing, and devotions are critical in rehearsals, not just music. Note: This does not give you license to hold a revival meeting instead of rehearsal. This does mean you should take 15 minutes to help your volunteers prepare their hearts and support each other with God’s help.
- In a service a slight change on the fly to meet a discovered need is worth a few seconds of disarray. I have my mentor, Stephen Michael Newby, to thank for this. He likes to shout “Reggae” and other random musical styles in the middle of a song and expects his players to switch the style. Needless to say, he only does this when working with higher level musicians, but there always are a few moments of disarray. The overall result is awesome, though, and Stephen makes these changes when he feels it will help bring people along in worship, not to be “cool.”
- If you have to choose between writing a cool new song for the service and having a coffee with a volunteer, choose the volunteer.
As you love people, people will love you and God will bless you. Worship leading becomes much easier when you are a spiritual leader first, because suddenly people want to follow you where’ve you are leading them.
In fact, musical excellence will thrive when an excellent worship leader is also an excellent spiritual leader.
Your team members will relax and perform better because as a spiritual leader you have demonstrated that you care more about them than you do about whether they are perfectly executing a piece of music.
What changes do you need to make in order to be a better spiritual leader?